Nothing happens just because we wish for it to. Many of the younger generations cannot find their way because they are not trained for it. Feeling good without doing good, doing things when the mood suits them and doing things with a condition has become their way of life.
The fault lies with parents and all adults that have a relationship with children. Children don’t do what we expect but what we inspect. A child may hate you for doing the right thing and it’s ok but that doesn’t make them right. Children are not raised on no’s. Can I stay out until two o’clock? No. Can I go on a date at thirteen? No.